You’re in my thoughts.

I miss my brain sometimes.

I’m glad you’re getting the Dv4 hooked up before her word enunciation gets too difficult – I can’t imagine the combination of difficulty to communicate + extra emotional spikes, so it’s really great that you’re already on top of some alternatives.

I’m glad that you are doing what you need to do. I think of you and your family daily. Anytime you need a friend or a time to not be alone, I am always home and my door is always open. I think you are courageous and inspiring.

::hug::

Your family is in my thoughts daily.

~Aramada

You’re so lucky that you’re able to do that, I think it’s great.

If you don’t get the answers you’re looking for I can ask my Mom for you. She’s getting her PhD in geriatrics, I don’t know how old your mother is, but it sounds like she’s dealing with many of the same issues elders do. She won’t know the specifics of what’s available in this state since all of her work has been in Massachusetts, but she does know the ins and outs of working with medicare and how to get the most out of the system.

She’s done it for both of her parents, plus she worked for many years at an elder services company that provided many of the things your Mom will most likely need if she wants to stay in her own home for as long as possible.

I suspect, as gargoylettelc said, your Mom is probably eligable for lots of services, home health aids, people to come and clean her house for her, meals on wheels, there’s a lot out there to help people.

I can’t think of a single thing I could possibly do to be helpful, but if you think of anything, let me know. I’ve been known to be pretty patient with wading through insurance paperwork and websites and phone calls to suss things out, if there is any of that I could do. Or if you guys need some soft, home cooked food you could take to her.

Good for you.

Wishing your mom a Happy Mother’s Day.